public void quxiao(final int position) {
        final String quxiaoyuanyin[] = {"行程改变", "我想重新下单", "车辆信息不符", "洗车工要求取消订单", "其他原因"};
        AlertDialog.Builder builder = new AlertDialog.Builder(this, 3);
        TextView title = new TextView(this);
        title.setGravity(Gravity.CENTER_HORIZONTAL);
        title.setText("取消原因");
        title.setTextSize(22);//字体大小
        title.setPadding(0, 30, 0, 30);//位置
        title.setTextColor(this.getResources().getColor(R.color.black));
        builder.setCustomTitle(title);
        // builder.setMessage("是否确认退出?"); //设置内容
        builder.setNegativeButton("取消", null);
        builder.setPositiveButton("确定", new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
            @Override
            public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                if (quxiaoyuanyin != null) {
//                    String yuanyin = quxiaoyuanyin.toString();
                    quxiaodingdan(tt, position);
                    dialog.dismiss();
                } else {
                    Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, "请选择取消原因", Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
                }
            }
        });
        // 设置列表显示，注意设置了列表显示就不要设置builder.setMessage()了，否则列表不起作用。
        builder.setSingleChoiceItems(quxiaoyuanyin, -1, new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {

            @Override
            public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                tt = quxiaoyuanyin[which];
            }
        });
        builder.create().show();
    }

    private void quxiaodingdan(final String yuanyin, final int position) {
        final ProgressDialog pd = new ProgressDialog(CehuaDiaLayout.this);
        pd.setMessage("拼命加载中...");
        pd.show();
        Dingdan dingdan = (Dingdan) adapter.getItem(position);
        FormBody.Builder params = new FormBody.Builder();
        params.add("O_UTel", Contast.user.getU_Tel());
        params.add("O_PlateNumber", dingdan.getO_PlateNumber());
        params.add("O_ID", "" + dingdan.getO_IDS());
        params.add("keys", Contast.KEYS);
        if (!TextUtils.isEmpty(yuanyin)) {
            params.add("O_ISCancelValue", yuanyin);
        } else {
            params.add("O_ISCancelValue", "");
        }
        OkHttpClient client = new OkHttpClient();
        Request request = new Request.Builder()
                .url(url_quxiao)
                .post(params.build())
                .build();
        okhttp3.Call call = client.newCall(request);
        call.enqueue(new Callback() {
            @Override
            public void onFailure(Call call, IOException e) {
                pd.dismiss();
                runOnUiThread(new Runnable() {
                    @Override
                    public void run() {
                        Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, "网络连接异常，请稍后再试", Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
                        return;
                    }
                });
            }

            @Override
            public void onResponse(Call call, Response response) throws IOException {
                pd.dismiss();
                String string = response.body().string();
                if (response.code() != HttpURLConnection.HTTP_OK) {
                    runOnUiThread(new Runnable() {
                        @Override
                        public void run() {
                            Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, "服务器连接异常，请稍后重试...", Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
                            return;
                        }
                    });
                } else {
                    if (!TextUtils.isEmpty(string)) {
                        if (string.contains("ErrorStr")) {
                            final Error error = JSON.parseObject(string, Error.class);
                            runOnUiThread(new Runnable() {
                                @Override
                                public void run() {
                                    Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, error.getErrorStr(), Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
                                }
                            });
                        } else {
                            Contast.user = JSON.parseObject(string, User.class);
                            runOnUiThread(new Runnable() {
                                @Override
                                public void run() {
                                    Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, "订单已取消", Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
//                                Intent intent = new Intent(DingdanXiangqingActivity.this,MyDingdanActivity.class);
//                                startActivity(intent);
                                    Log.w("tttt", yuanyin);
                                    finish();
                                }
                            });
                        }
                    } else {
                        runOnUiThread(new Runnable() {
                            @Override
                            public void run() {
                                Toast.makeText(CehuaDiaLayout.this, "服务器繁忙，请稍后重试...", Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();
                                return;
                            }
                        });
                    }
                }
            }
        });
    }

调用：

myHolder.bt_quxiao.setOnClickListener(new View.OnClickListener() {
    @Override
    public void onClick(View view) {
        if (dingdan.getO_TypeID() == 1) {
            cehuaDiaLayout.quxiao(position);
            myHolder.bt_quxiao.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        } else {
            myHolder.bt_dadianhua.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
            myHolder.bt_quxiao.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        }
    }
});